Monday, December 19, 2011

Hors d'Oeuvres

I really liked this calendar entry this weekend, and I wanted to share it!
Planning Hors d'Oeuvres for a Party, from the Joy of Cooking page-a-day calendar, December 17/18, 2011.

Many hors d'oeuvres are rich in fat or are combined with an oil or butter base, in part to buffer the impact of alcohol. If, during preprandial* drinking, the appetizer intake is too extensive, true enjoyment of the meal will be destroyed. Before a rich dinner, two or three hors d'oeuvres are usually plenty -- a bowl of nuts or olives, cruditĂ©s witha  dip, perhaps a canapĂ©. For a cocktail party without dinner to follow, offer five to six different appetizers, including at least two that involve meat or seafood and at least two that are hot. Allow six to eight pieces per person if a meal is to follow. If appetizers are the only food, allow for double that amount.

Happy entertaining! 


*preprandial: of, relating to, or suitable for the time just before dinner (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/preprandial)

Friday, December 16, 2011

Advent: Friday, Third Week

Today's Action: Renew the intention to spend quiet time resting in the presence of the Lord. Be a light and save haven for others.

I'm going to not necessarily reflect on today's action, and instead, I'm just going to freewrite. I'm not feeling like being confined today.

I'm finding it hard to rationalize the bad things that happen in the world. Firstly, this crazy elevator instance where the lady got caught in it and died! It's just awful! What a strange nanosecond in time. I pray for her family and friends, as well as for her, that God takes care of them all.

I'm so ready to start this next phase of my life. It doesn't help that I'm sick. I hate not having the energy to do all the things on my to-do list. It really sets me back because I don't allow enough time in for back up. With all the stuff going on at work though, I can't help but feel just a tiny bit of guilt... some feeling of not finishing what I started. I keep praying that God will take care of all the people I work with. I know from past experience that, with time, things will just work themselves out they way they need to. The company will not go under just because I'm leaving, and hopefully, I'm banking on the fact that now someone else will get to shine. The company will have a new beginning as well, so that's exciting, right?

I want to maintain all the relationships I have. I know it's easier said than done, but this time I really want to try.

Monday, December 5, 2011

Advent: Thursday, First Week

December 1, 2011

Today, look at life, yours and your neighbor's  How often did our gracious God turn apparent misfortune into richest blessings!

The first misfortune that comes into my mind is Hurricane Katrina.  While I still battle with the loss and separation, there are many ways God has blessed us through the storm.  Firstly, we have learned to survive and cope.  We know what family means.  And, I think the biggest blessing we received was realizing what home means and never taking it for granted.  I can't tell now exactly what stemmed directly from the storm, but I know that I and my entire family have a completely different perspective on life because of it.  Regardless, for many misfortunes in the world, there are ways that God's love and blessings shine through.  For example, look at other natural disasters and the way people band together to provide resources and support to the victims of such events.  God definitely brings out the best in many people.

Katrina and natural disasters aside, I'm trying to think about my neighbors' misfortunes and blessings.  This is a tricky meditation for me.  I don't know if I could rightfully say that good things came out of bad situations that happened to others because it's subjective.  It might seem good to me, but they might not see it that way.  I can think of a lot of misfortunes that happened to many of my friends.  However, I feel like it's presumptuous of me to assume they've witnessed blessings in their lives through those misfortunes.  It's not to say I can't believe they've been blessed with many things: children, new opportunities, a refreshed outlook on life, an adventure.  But to say they've received those blessings through misfortunes seems unfair for me to judge.  However, if I believe in a far and gracious God, which I do, then I have faith that he will in fact -- in his own time -- bring forth blessings in our lives through apparent misfortunes.  Therefore, I do find consolation in the fact that when I or my neighbor is faced with misfortune, large or small, that blessings will come eventually through personal perseverance and a strong faith in God.  I feel like that seems overly optimistic, but I've been there.  I've had a few misfortunes in my life, and I've handled them, mentally and spiritually, in different ways.  I know from experience that faithful dedication to God's graciousness and fairness only brings about the most beautiful blessings - more than you probably could have imagined on your own.  It's truly amazing!

Recap:  Look at your and your neighbor's lives.  How often did God turn misfortunes into blessings?
1.  God has most definately brought blessings upon me through misfortune.
2.  I can't always tell if other people found blessings through their misfortunes, but I hope they do!
3.  I trust in a gracious and loving God who will bring about blessings through misfortunes in his own time.